How to have a great bond with your mother
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To Have a Great Bond with Your Mother requires love and caring from both the side of the mother as well as the son/ daughter. This relationship is unquestionably the most complex of all human bonds and needs nurturing and care to keep it growing.
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A few thumb rules
- Be open and frank with your mother and share your day with her; this is a great way to build a healthy relationship.
- Help your mother by lending a hand in the household chores and doing the odd jobs that she assigns you without making a fuss about it. Making too much noise about what you did takes away from the help that you gave.
- Keep your room clean and tidy, not only when she tells you to but even otherwise.
- If you have to watch that program on T.V. or read that book, be sure to finish your school work first.
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Do’s
- Appreciate your mother’s cooking and compliment her on the new recipe she tried even if you think that it could be improved upon.
- Offer to vacuum the carpet once in a while, let her know that you care.
- Buy her a present on her birthday or give her a gift or a card, even if it a little gift or a small bunch of flowers, she will love you for caring.
- Remember to wish her on Mother’s Day, and if you buy her a gift make it a thoughtful one. If you are unsure ask your elder sister, she is sure to know what your mother wants.
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Don’ts
- Don’t try to get out of situations by lying to your mother. Lies to mothers have a nasty habit of coming back to haunt the liar.
- Don’t argue with her about everything, remember Mother knows best. If you want, you can come back later and make your point politely without making a scene.
- Don’t invite your punk friends home when you know that it does not please her to see them. Instead, meet them at the corner soda fountain.