How to have people like you for who you are rather than for what you look like
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To have people like you for who you are rather than for what you look like is a challenge especially if you are good looking. Your looks are the initial things that would impress someone if you met them for the first time. They would only come to know about your intelligence, personality and character after they met you several times over a period. Here are some tips to make them fall in love with your personality and not your good looks.
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A few suggestions
- Some people are just not interested in your personality. All they see is your physical presence and do not want to progress beyond that. Dump them; they are not worth your friendship.
- Become friends with guys who want to talk to you about yourself and stuff that interests you both. Not all of such guys are nerds, lacking in personality. Some will definitely have both brain as well as brawn.
- Don’t let a guy get within easy reach of you too early and too easily. Let them sweat it out and finally you will be left with only the die hard fans who are maybe very interested in the whole you.
- Develop a sense of humor. Intelligent girls like guys who have the ability to laugh at themselves and intelligent guys like girls who laugh and smile and are just fun to be with.
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Do’s
- Just be yourself – confident and positive. Don’t change your person and your outlook to attract someone or to copy somebody.
- Wear clothes that you are most comfortable in. You do not need to wear baggy shapeless clothes to appear nerdy.
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Don’ts
- Don’t get taken in by somebody’s intelligence very quickly. Guys can pose to have more intellect than they actually possess by talking big and smart. Trust your gut instinct, it never fails to warn.